Thursday, December 15, 2011

Comings and Goings

“Fortaleza”

A new word (Portuguese), but then again, I’m learning lots of new things these days. 
When the Tatianas were in my class, I learned what it’s really like to live in Russia.  Tatiania #1 left on a Friday, and the following week José (aka Dacio) and Nilza arrived.  They are a lovely couple who’ve been in class for the past 4 weeks. He’s a Scorpio and she’s a Sagittarian so they’re a lively couple.  I told José to stop talking and listen more during his first week, but he thankfully ignored my suggestion and I let it go. It’s hard to argue in a second language.

Over the past month, I’ve learned a great deal about José and Nilza, and the country they are from – Brazil.  He’s an government auditor; she works in the Customs office, and the Brazilian government grants its employees a 3-month leave after 5 years of employment to study abroad. That’s how they came to be in Italy. They’ve been married 25 years, have 3 grown kids, like to travel, eat, drink, and have that Latin spark which I’m coming to appreciate.

José and Nilza
Along with my other Brazilian classmate William, I learned that the president of Brazil is a women, that there are 190 million people in the country, soccer is a BIG deal, corruption is rampant, and their politics are very interesting when so many people in the country are truly poor. I also learned that Brazilians are warm, friendly, and proud people.  It’s a shameful thing to admit, but I think before José, Nilza and William, I had only met one other Brazilian in my life – a student from Rio de Janeiro who was studying at Rotman when I was volunteering there.

José and Nilza were great classmates and today was their final day.  It was also Nilza’s 50th birthday so I bought her a cake and we all celebrated with Prosecco.  Seemed like a good way to spend our class time!  Afterwards, my Brazilian trio and I went out for lunch and talked like the friends we have become.  Never mind we didn’t know all the right Italian verb tenses or words – somehow we just understood each other.  It was a great lunch, and then I learned another new word: triste – sad.
At school, change seems to be a constant. Students come and go – sometimes for a week, sometimes longer; teachers get changed around and classes merge - as mine did this week which added 3 great new students: Maria from Lyon, Carlos from Mexico City, and Manoj from Goa. I’m learning to deal with constant change and valuing celebrating in the moment.
José and Nilza are off to Verona tomorrow for a few days (writing letters to Juliette, no doubt), then meeting their kids in Roma before going to Berlin for Christmas and New Year’s, then Napoli and then home to Fortaleza. (Travel itineraries are very important at an international language school!)

I did not know that Fortaleza existed until 4 weeks ago.  Nilza proudly showed me this video yesterday on her iPhone.  I think Fortaleza and Brazil just might make it onto a future travel itinerary. Pretty stunning!